People say to us all the time, "I want to teach my children to cook, but where do I start?" There's probably no one right answer to this great question. But we do have an opinion on the subject, so let's talk:
First, there are some basic habits and skills that you'll want your children to have, and you can start teaching these as soon as your little ones are physically able. A good clue that children are ready for household chores (kitchen work, for instance) is seen in the development of the fine motor muscles in their hands--if children are cutting with safety scissors, manipulating crayons, etc., then they're ready to move on to bigger things. So two habits (that even 3-year-olds are capable of) to teach and
insist on are:
1) washing hands before and after kitchen work
2) cleaning up after themselves, which includes wiping surfaces with
a non-toxic cleaner (see our Feb. 11 post for this recipe) and putting things back where they found them
They may need help with these steps, and they'll need a safe step stool or sturdy chair to stand on, and of course, they'll need your time and patience. But down the road, your time and sacrifice will pay BIG dividends--there's not much better than independent children that can get a meal on the table for you.
OK, now that your children are practicing these two good habits, let's get down to work:
Toddlers can help unload the dishwasher, set the table, and clear the table. They also like washing any dishes or prep items by hand (standing on a stool and working in warm sudsy water is very therapeutic for "busy" hands!). Toddlers love cracking eggs, stirring, and placing cooled baked items (cookies, for instance) on serving platters.
Grade schoolers can do all that very well, and more. And here's where we really answer the above question about where to start children actually cooking (or meal prepping). We suggest starting with
salads. Lettuces can be ripped with fingers, carrots can be shredded with a shredder or curled using a peeler, and most other ingredients cut with kitchen shears. If you're worried about knife safety, then you can cut the tough stuff (a tomato maybe).
Salads are a good place to start grade schoolers because there's no need to use a mixer (using a portable electric mixer takes some arm strength they may not have yet) and because there's no exposure to the hot stove or oven. The tools salads draw on are fairly simple to use and only need a little hand dexterity.
But maybe the best reason to start them out here is because of the artistic element that can be worked into the process. This is where you can teach them to garnish--those radish roses, curled green onions, melon balls, carrot curls, egg slices (from a wire egg slicer), or sprinkles of nuts and seeds--all can be arranged so creatively on the bed of greens they just prepared. When you can add an element of creativity to a job, it becomes fun and the doer develops a real affinity for it.
We also like to start children out making salads because they're healthy! It's just too easy for children to develop a sweet tooth, so why not introduce them to the tasty world of fruits and vegetables at a young age as a way to counteract the natural pull cookies and other sweets have? We sample and nibble at what we're making usually, so our kidlets may as well be nibbling cherry tomatoes and carrot curls from the git-go. AND, you'll find that what children make, or are invested in, they usually promote and tend to like themselves. Teaching them to make salads is your sneaky way of turning them on to the world of healthy food!

As we say, there are lots of answers to the question of where to start when teaching kids to cook, but establishing good habits and then introducing the delightful art of salad-making is a great place to begin. Now what are your thoughts on this topic, and what have been your experiences in teaching your children and grandchildren to cook? We'd love to hear them. In the meantime, here's to family dinner made easy as we involve our children in this wonderful family tradition!